Mistakes, I’ve made several, we have all made mistakes at one time or another. Mistakes are so “normal” that songs are written about them. Here are a few I’m aware of:
Queen – We are the Champions –“And bad mistakes I’ve made a few I’ve had my share of sand kicked in my face”
Bob Marley – Mistakes – “I made a mistake, yes, I did, yes, I did”
Smokey Robinson – Oh Baby, Baby – “Mistakes, I know I’ve made a few. But I’m only human. You’ve made mistakes too”
If we all make mistakes, do we all react to the outcome the same way? Do we all change whatever behavior or choices we’ve made to NOT make the same mistake again? In my life I’ll admit mistakes have been repeated. Meaning I didn’t learn the first time around, OR, I didn’t stop to find out how my behavior influenced the situations where mistakes occurred. Do you ever find yourself in a different situation but with the same mistakes being made? You are not alone and you can change!
Mistakes are opportunities to learn and grow. Mistakes and the situations they bring are new chances for us to take a different approach! In this article we’ll focus on dating relationships. A man or woman find what they believe to be their “perfect” dating partner. The excitement and anticipation build for this new potential relationship. However, like their previous dating relationships in a few weeks or months….BAM….”it” happens again! The “it”, can be different for everyone, but why “it” keeps happening is the same. If you have not dealt with the “it” from your last relationship, stopped to discover your part in the situation and learned a new way to act/think – you WILL repeat “it”!
Have you thought or have you heard others say, “Why does this always happen to me?” or “Why do all the men/women I date end up doing the same thing as my last date?” Stop! It’s time to investigate what is happening, deal with your findings, change your thoughts/behavior patterns and head in a new direction! How do we do that?! Here are several options. You could ask a close friend to be honest with you and tell you what they see as a pattern. You can ask a family member for advice. You can seek out a Life Coach – someone that will help you sort out what is happening, think of other ways to think/act, set a plan in place, hold you accountable and guide you to reach your highest potential. I would enjoy the opportunity to talk with you to see if we would be a good fit for a Life Coach relationship. Simply go to the Speak To Me page, fill out the brief form and we’ll be in contact! One of my favorite quotes of Albert Einstein is “Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.” Let’s see what I can do to help you have different results!
We have focused here on the dating relationship but this applies to all areas of your life, marriage, job, family, church, work and more. If you find yourself living with consequences of past or present mistakes, or if you are thinking it will never change, let’s work together. We will sort through the situation, learn different responses, new thought processes and set a plan in place to change your focus from mistakes are problems to opportunities for growth!! Go to the Speak To Me page, complete the form and we can talk about what steps to take next! Here’s to changing mistakes into growth opportunities!